#Missed Expectations

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Have you ever prayed for something, received something completely different, and immediately decided that God didn't answer you? What if the apartment was supposed to prepare you for the house? What if the relationship, the job, the season, or even the struggle you didn't ask for was actually part of the preparation for what you said you wanted? Sometimes we become so focused on the destination that we completely overlook the blessing sitting in the middle of the journey.

You can't become a swimmer without getting in the water. You can't become a chef without learning timing and balance. You can't become a good driver without actually driving. And you can't expect to carry something greater without becoming prepared to steward it. Maybe the thing you called a missed expectation was really a necessary preparation. God isn't a vending machine where we insert prayer and receive exactly what we pictured; this walk is relational. It's about the heart, the growth, the stewardship, and who you're becoming while you're waiting.

And while you're waiting for your own blessing, don't forget to look around. Somebody else may be struggling quietly, carrying something you can't see, and needing you to simply show up. Every stage matters. Every season has something to teach you. So before you resent the place you're standing in because it isn't where you thought you'd be... take another look.

What if you didn't miss the blessing? What if you just missed what the blessing was preparing you for?

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Hello, hello, hello, our DC family. This is your girl Lexus T coming at you straight from the heart where the talk is real in the vibe is live because we're in this life that God gave us to do to the best that we can. Welcome to those who have been with us. Welcome, all those who are new, those who tap in from time to time, those who are rolling out in some more of our YouTube stratosphere. Now I do have a Lex Effect YouTube rolling out slowly and surely with just some teaching points. Might be a little, you know, choreographed on that. Let's just say pin-hint. Um, but you know, I gotta do what we gotta do is still get the message in my mind, you know. Um, but yes, Real Doubledose channel. Okay, I think it's actually at the Real Double Dose channel on YouTube. Check out what's going on, beloveds. And I hope that this conversation, guys, wherever you are right now, whatever you're feeling, I pray for healing, I pray for upliftment and all the hairs on your head from every single count, from whatever you're going through, whatever you're about to get through, whatever you're going into. Just know you are not alone. And there is a prayer and not more prayers going up to you from people. Well, the face you have maybe not seen face to face yet, but just know you are not alone, and just stay out, stay alert. Okay, check out the website at real doubledosechannel.com, check out our social media. We've been here for over a decade now. You know, you can always send a message, you can always, you know, and I know some of a lot of you don't know different things, and you you know it. Um, our email, okay. Um, flip daswitch at reborn.com, flip the switch at reborn.com. You can check us out at real double dose channel. Well, I would say at yandex.com, which we still you know have operating, it's been there for us, but I just want to let you know we're still there. There's many other avenues for things going on, and look out for the downloads of just elevating, look up for the things. It's not always a catch that comes with it. The only catch you can have is catching yourself from falling this time if you roll with those who are raw, real, and direct. Boom, let's get it. So I don't know this conversation. I don't know if this was something I don't believe that I I gave this already, and if it is all well, okay. Um, I had I had I actually recorded on my phone May 7th, which wasn't I don't even oh, maybe it's been a little while. I don't know, but I'm gonna talk about the value of perception. You know, it was called misxpectations. Now, I don't want to vex myself by doing this conversation. I did it already, but you can't do something over and over exactly the same. Even if you think that you put the exact amount in there, there's always gonna be one crumb or one piece of sentiment, something that it just is gonna fly in there and just never make it exactly the same, right? But I want to talk about mis expectations. And look, I I put this episode and give it to be ready and you know, out there for you. And I hear, oh, you have one out here. Well, this is miss expectations part two or part one, no matter what. I like it, I think it's amazing. But I think about that. So, you know, the same thing. If a person wants to have, you know, they they ask God for things, right? Um, you're gonna ask for, like, hey, you know, I really would like a new home. God, please give me a new home. And then all of a sudden, now you're your goal, you're called, let's put it this way in this narrative, you're coming from a perspective to where you're leaving, you know, a family's home or friend's couch or just maybe homeless, you know, or should I say, um, home insecurity, whatever they call the name, right? Um, whatever it might be, you're thinking, oh man, first you need to put the alignment of the money or the job or the the help. And all of a sudden, God says, Well, here you go. Here's a nice little apartment for you and your child, or you and your family. It's not the biggest right now, but it's about to be on its way. And you say, Lord, that's nice, but you know, say you're chatting on the phone with your friend, and you go, Man, that's okay, but I didn't want an apartment, I wanted a house. My kids are loud, or I want some privacy. I don't want to hear the neighbors sitting there playing their music all night a little bit. I mean, it's not bad, but you know, and we start this list of complaints. We start this list of not even giving the blessing time to be thankful for or grow or seeding it in our hearts. And then sometimes we just, okay, uh quick little things the next minute, man, when am I gonna get my house? When am I gonna get my house? When am I when am I gonna get my house? And God essentially, I mean, anybody from that perspective, but I can only imagine God would say, Man, I gave you an apartment from which you prayed for to get out of, and the efficiency to actually get into the apartment. And instead of enjoying it and trying to make it your own space for a moment in time, not knowing what I have prepared for you, you say, Man, I should have shot bigger. And maybe you could have asked for bigger, but you said a home, Lex. Yeah, a home is still a home. It doesn't have to be a house where there's no one above or beyond you or below. And some people say, I gotta go home. They talk about their apartments or even with their roommates. And maybe you could be more specified in saying it. You know, it's just the same. God's still trusting you to steward that. Well, let me see where your appreciation is, let me see where it's at. And I have to check myself in certain situations, which is very diabolical at times. Yes, your girl Lex is dealing with that. It's family-related, so it's kind of hard to shake. Though I look at that, and it's not hard to shake, but in my heart, the way it works in the oracle in me, it's it's definitely a profound journey of understanding spiritually as well. I mean, narcissism, especially in different roles in your life and parental and life itself with siblings, it can be dealing with it is like dealing with the devil in a whole different way. I do concur. Um, though I will say, you know, if I get to that point where I'm like, you know, I gotta check myself and be like, Lex, are you a little bit thankful? Yes, I'm I'm thankful for being able to wash my body every day, brush my teeth, um, you know, check out what's going on, having my place to store stuff. I'm thankful for me being able to have a vehicle. I'm thankful for me being able to have food and different things. And someone out there in the world, I said it many times, beloved, someone out there is begging to be in our position regardless, even if it's something that they're trying to appreciate for themselves, right? So when it comes down to that, we think about that. Some of us ask for stuff and not prepared. Well, I got the apartment or I got the home, but I don't have a broom. I don't have any grocery. I didn't prepare for that. I literally spent that off last week, not even getting ready for my blessing. See, a lot of things are still stewardship, but also the testing, the testing through the blessing, the getting us ready, just like a person will say, I want to join a martial arts or kickboxing. Yeah, you still got to get prepped. You can't just go on the ring and say you're Mike Tyson. You'll get your teeth knocked out times 10. You know, you can't just go in there and say, I'm ready to be a swimmer, but you've never touched water in your life and went under there to hold your breath. Okay. You can't say you're ready for a relationship and all of a sudden you've never even understood what the other person expects from that relationship, let alone what you can do in that relationship to give your 100 with their 100. You can't say, I just want to be a chef overnight. Let me go in here and throw all the ingredients and hope that they work, not knowing the balance, the structure of how much I should add, the cook times, you'll burn the house down or you'll get too much sodium in your body and shut your organs down. So there has to be the stewardship of the journey of learning. I want to get my driver's license tomorrow. Yes, but you've never turned the car on and put your foot on the pedal. You've never got a chance to see the signals or the traffic lights or how other people move and drive. You've never did that, right? It doesn't mean you can't do that, but we still have to go through a growing time. Okay, I just got pregnant. Oh, I'm having my baby tomorrow. You'd be like, What? Seriously? You got pregnant yesterday and you're giving birth. What? There's no time for preparation. Oh, I just met someone next day. What do they call it? Love bombing. Hey, I'm in love with you, man. Girl or bro, I just met you. I have love for you, you know. I'm pretty sure we understand. You know, we're here in this world. They would probably block you and be like, can we get an evaluation? It doesn't mean you can't hold that amount of love for someone in the depth of God connecting it. But what it means is you're jumping the gun. And as soon as you went forward, you're already failing. And I have to say that you have to fail forward a lot. That's what comes along with the journey of what it is in life, right? It's something we wouldn't want for our relationship. You would tell your son or your nephew or your brother or your friend, hey man, what do you mean? You fell in love with this girl. You just met her yesterday. Give it some time. Or your son, this daughter, whatever. You'd be saying the same thing as a protection. Or your friend, right? The same feeling of acknowledgement of what we want. Or, hey, you know, it's really nice to meet you. Can you borrow me a thousand dollars? Or, hey, you know, I know you've been coming over here every single moment and telling me what it is, but I just I really need help right now. And this is a relationship we have with Lord, the Lord, with God. A lot of people do. And I'm not judging those who are, but just check it in yourself. And I have to make sure I keep checking myself to be like, I'm not gonna just come up there and say, Lord, I need this, this, this, this, and that. But what I'm giving you is not a portion that you deserve. Okay, let's do an example for the human flesh. Hey, I need you to be my lover, my this, my that, my this. But when it comes down to you needing someone to support you in an appointment, it comes down to you needing someone to help you if you just had leg surgery. When it comes down to what you need, I do not care until I feel that it's worthy of my time, my direction. So this is part two, the missed expectations, but it's also the sense of revelation. Now, I don't know exactly what I'll be called, but I want to remind those out there, are we doing that? Not because the last days are here, that revelation the Bible spoke about. Not because of, oh, I want to be close to God so I don't die. Uh you know, or when I die, this happens. Because I mean, guaranteed, when you come into life, you are guaranteed a ticket to death. That's just what it is. And death doesn't have to be so ugly. And when it's your time and God calls you, it'll be that time. And God will take care of you throughout that journey, no matter how horrific it may seem to the outside world. But I want to remind you something, right? It's not a genie and a bottle mentality, once again, to where we just rub, you know, God the right way or do something and try to get our kudos. Not the religious spirit mindset where we think we show up every weekend, whatever day that is for you, might be Sunday. Mine's been Saturday, right? In different places, and you sit there and wear a suit and a tie and dress and pretend everything's okay. You have your fellowship dinners and your potluck. Now, feet washing and communion was kind of fun, but you know, it's not the point that church is stiff, it's the point that it doesn't really incorporate God the way it should. And it's not to that measurement of it, but I'm saying I had to throw this little extra in here because I want people to understand at the same time they're like, oh well, a fellowship for getting under fellowship, a fellowship with people who want a fellowship about God and the stewardship of God. Don't fellowship with people who are just going to sit there and have a meal and talk about their missed expectations. And that correlates to this. You want to talk about college programs and all this stuff. Okay, you got my number all week in the church directory. You know how to see me when you see me on the weekend. You see me at the store, or you can reach out somehow, right? The pastor, whatever you have, the priest, I don't know. Cardinal, the bishop. But why do you want to speak about that on the day we're supposed to fellowship and worship and have that for God? Why do you want to nitpick and talk about the next person sitting at the table and who they just slept with? Yeah, people have to really look at that. The misexpectation of that is we could have spoken profoundly about a verse and who we could help next week. We could speak about, hey, do you have any extra food so we can go down here and help these uh people who are less fortunate? Hey, would you like a plate we just made? I got an extra blanket. The misxpectation of that is, man, I just saw you know somebody looking real sad and down, and that person could be on their way to end their life, like my sister and many, many more. My brother, God rest their souls. It's your mis-expectation to stop those things from happening or being a conduit, being a person that can be utilized the way you're supposed to. And you say, Well, Lexus' free will, absolutely, but it's still the will of God. Many of the plans of man and one man, but God's plan will reveal. And I can't quote the scripture exactly, but that's what it is. We have a creator. And I'm not saying to feel persecuted, whatever else. If you go out there and get drunk tomorrow and get in an accident, I'm pretty sure you'll find someone to blame. And I God forbid that happens. But think about that. If you see someone in the store, you know, struggling to get 75 cents out of their pocket to pay for that sandwich, and you're sitting there with a crisp $5 bill with nowhere to go, and you don't step in, that could have been your moment to feed that, could have been an angel, could have been anything, could have been that person just needing to not go off the cliff for what was going on with their life at that moment. There's so many things that we don't play into, right? Everything that we don't play into. It's like, what's next? When is it coming? You know, they don't understand so many concepts of it, but God is looking for the stewardship, the connectivity, the care, the graciousness, beloveds, and our gratefulness within every single moment that we start the engine, right? Or that we have to get an oil change or do something. And I know it's hard in this lifetime. I know it can feel like setback after setback after setback, you know, like, okay, I'm just gonna say whatever. I'm trying to give it up to God, but do we? Because I scramble sometimes. I'm like, okay, I gotta do this, gotta do this, but my God, you put all this stuff in what, what? And God keeps saying, I gave you a lane to go, and you get the hugest revelation, and you restart the journey again. And it's over and over on this hamster cycle until God says, I gave you the open door out of that hamster wheel cycle that you kept putting yourself in, and you choose to look at it out there and go right back on that wheel again and still sit there thinking, how when the door is right there. And many of us have to find that. I invite you to come to our dream sessions coming up, and I have to call that dream builder dream, you know, the the seed of legacy and beyond. I invite you to come to anything we have going on. Go to real double dosechannel.com, check out any updates and stuff we'll have, or the tab that says work with Lexus. We'll still have updates on all the pages. Um, even the blog itself that's going to be on there, it should be out there or LinkedIn, wherever you go. Okay. I just want to make sure you know that something is always waiting for you. But just because it comes to you doesn't mean it was the finality of what's to come. And we can't fake it till you make it anyway, because God knows the heart sees the heart and everything else. But when something comes to you of that level and what you have to do and everything you ask, just remember it doesn't mean that's the final cuss. Because that same man that you get to know becomes your fiance and marry, he has different stages. He met you as the boyfriend, okay. So he met you as the boyfriend, now all of a sudden he graduated to fiance, and as he graduated to fiancé, he gets a chance to be indoctrinated to husband, okay, or entering the husband space, and every level changes, like the caterpillar to the cocoon to the butterfly. When you met that woman, she became your girlfriend, right? Go study. Then all of a sudden, it's okay, she's my fiance, and she transitioned into that wife. So at every level, you had to steward that, or it wouldn't have become the wife or the husband. It would have just been there as just, hey, I met her or him, bye, boom, it's done. And the cycle continues. So we're saying, Lord, we're still at a dating level where we want things to be, or Lord, guide me into what I'm supposed to do according to your will and your journey, because you know you made me, you create me, you know everything, you have everything aligned. Please just guide and protect me as I go along this way, trusting in you as much as my doubts in this human flesh will happen. I know that it all rests within you. And God, I know I get scared sometimes because I'm in this human form, all these calamities, all this stuff on the news, all this political stuff, all this craziness, people hurting each other randomly because of it. Every moment you turn around, there's not really anything positive to say. It's just bad on top of bad and worse, trying to make us question God when we need to really question ourselves into what we're turning into and what we're not willing to help that's turning into it. It's not everyone for themselves, it's everyone are a part of the self. And I can't wait for you to read The Illumination of Self. When that book rolls out, it will be on you know Real Doubledose channel, and I believe it's forward slash work with Lexus. It'll also be on the main one and all the blogs and stuff like that. We're just trying to make it happen and blast it when it does in a good way, but that's the whole key to it all, beloved. It's always got to be where can we connect that? Not pressing ourselves to find trouble or pressing ourselves to do good, to look like the shiny object, but allowing the call to happen, allowing that moment. And some people are even to the point now where social media got so blown out with seeing a homeless person or seeing someone in the store, and they give five dollars and they get $10,000 in return, which I think is awesome. But some people are just making sure they do that, otherwise wouldn't have, just so they can get it. Now, maybe they need that blessing, maybe they don't. I thought myself, like, hey, if I turn around, someone was like, hey, I'll be like, oh Lord, I need to get a new home. You think about different things like that, but ultimately, where does the faith and the trust lie? It lies within the confines of understanding our connection with God. Now, I do have an omnibus coming out with you know the GSI, ancestral ties, all that, but right now the illumination has to come with the triple E coming afterwards. So, whatever it might be, just make sure you understand that every moment has its cusp. And once you once you watch it unfold, once you play the part that is already playing for you, once you align with what's already in the destination of the journey that carries doesn't mean you can't have a wonderful, you know, amazing aftermath or in the journey math. It does not mean that, but make sure you show up when you're supposed to. Yeah, be careful always. The trucha, right? Keep your eyes open on the kaye out there. But I'm saying, like, make sure you show up when you need to, make sure you have the heart and the ears open of a person that says, Can I lean on your shoulder? Don't be too busy or oh, I'm unpopular. I gotta act like I'm you know, I don't want to be associated with this, but for what though? If that person needed to speak to you for a moment, just so you could preserve their lives to see the future of even their children or grandchildren unfold, whatever it might be, take a moment and realize this is my season of stewardship. This is the season God gave me. God is entrusting that with me. And if I can't prove those things, who am I to sit there and complain about, hey Lord, you gave me a free Starbucks card for six months. I said I want a coffee every day. But that could have led to you having an espresso machine from meeting someone at the coffee shop that just had some extra thing they were doing. You don't know what paths cross. God, I said I want a brand new car with no car issues. You gave me a used one and I have to sit here and possibly put more money into it. But I'm not looking at the fact that I just was walking and my feet were hurting. I'm not looking at the fact that I can get somewhere in five minutes now instead of a whole hour trying to take a bus ride or whatever. Trust me, I know. Or paying a high expensive ride share or a taxi. I know. I know those things. So it's the same thing. I said I wanted pancakes tonight with some good, you know, eggs on the side. I don't know. Let's not even say that. There's too many recalls going on with that. I wanted some, I, you know, I wanted to have a strawberry smoothie and I got this. But at the end of the day, let's not focus so small. Uh Lord, I I really want to help someone out today. But we look for the most drained-looking person instead of God saying, hey, I still am taking care of my children no matter what you see. Maybe you're looking for the person that they paint on the TV with the dirty clothes and having took a shower and God bless their hearts. I'm talking about your next door neighbor. I'm talking about the person at the store that looks like they got it together, but they don't. I'm looking at the person who's having intrusive thoughts or things that are going on, and you're the only person that can resonate with their energy or them. I'm talking about the person who showed up late for their shift, and they want someone to call them not to come in, but to see why they are not coming in. I want someone to see why the child is crying on the park bench sitting by their parent. I want someone to be able to see what's going on. And I realize people have walls built up and protection levels built up, but it's for us to connect to God and align so deep that nothing, and I mean nothing, beloveds, can ever stop the path that we're on. God Is for us. Then who can be against us? If God is for us, then who can be against us? It's only when we're going against the will of God and what God's knowingness is of us as we ask for revelation and we are given revelation that it becomes so steep and edgy. Maybe it's because the kid says, Well, my parents won't let me go here. They're so horrible. I can't stand them. It's almost the same way. And your parents thinking, I know, for example, Madison can't see where she's going. I know Teresa can't see where they're going. I know, you know, uh, I'll say my girl, Keisha, or Keia, I think her name was. Yeah, sorry. Uh but I know she can't, you know, see that. Or, you know, I'll say, Yeah, my wonderful extended family. I know, you know, let's say Veronica, she can't see where she's going. But if she goes over there in that mud hole where they're doing construction with all those sharp pipes, she's gonna fall and hurt herself. If she goes over here down this dark alley to pay with her friends, she might be the next person on the milk cart. And I used to be, or I don't want that to happen. Or I know if they want to play with this, you know, uh wiring and go swimming at the same time with wet hands, they might get shocked to the point where they can't return. So God and that example knows what we can't foresee. So we're thinking, oh, unfair. We want, we want, still not giving the attributes and time to God, still not giving the love and connection to God to fulfill ourselves within it. We're looking at it as always a one-sided traction, but yet we expect everything to be on our side without even acknowledging where we're asking for everything to come from. So, whatever it might be, remember keep your eyes open, not because you expect to have things because solely you ask for them, but because of who you asked for them from and knowing what comes along with the pieces of that love that's unconditional, the true love. Knowing that it comes from a place to where the foreseen is already protected, knowing that you have to steward and be appreciative of where you are and where you want to be and show up to say, Man, I want such and such, but can I show up? Ask for the patience and prayer, have the community of spirit, have that internally in the heart, not by man, but by God. And if you say, Well, Lex, how can I find that? Close your ears down, let your heart beat, relax, and ask God to come in. Even before bed, even if you say, Well, I'm at work or I'm taking care of my kids or I'm a caretaker, I'm doing this, I'm driving. In a common sense practice, you know, when those things are secured and okay, come in and always be listening out for the inside of that voice, the inner voice to speak to you. And it'll speak to you in very different ways. No one can tell you exactly how, but it'll lead you in the right direction and make sure you say, Well, I don't know what voice is speaking to me, not your thoughts to slow down. You know what your thoughts are. People really think that they're thinking when they're not thinking. They really think that they thunk, but they didn't think, right? Uh, in the words of late Bob Bob Proctor can say the the best. But you think about the things that happened behind it, and you say, Well, God wouldn't lead me into you know robbing and hurting someone. God wouldn't leave and and familiar spirits can come off saying real nice. I remember one man has said he kept seeing his mother come to him after he passed, after she passed. And he noticed eventually he started mourning for her so much. I think about the fourth or fifth time his mother was telling him, you know, he should do this and that. And he noticed, like, man, this is not even if that person had that character, it's like, why are you telling me to do this? You're not here no more. Why are you telling me these things? And he had to basically connect with God deeper and cast that out. You know, like ask God to cast it out. Like, hey, you're not my mother, go away. You know, we it can come off like that, but you you'll know the route because God will never lead you astray. And anything connected to God is a ripple effect of abundance. Doesn't mean you won't have stumbling blocks or hard times, but what it does mean is you'll always be on the right directional path. So I don't know what it is, but we'll just call it Miss Expectations part two. I hope this hit home. And yeah, even if I have to do a part four, part five, I hope that we all get it even more. My love and my blessings are with you always. Peace, love, and blessing. This is your girl Lex coming at you straight from the heart, as always, and the spirit. Okay, so be the change, feel the passion, and embrace the power of the spirit becoming more of you beyond 2.0, 3.0, 4.0, 5.0, 7, 8, 9, 10, boom, and beyond. I will be back with you soon. Thank you for being with us. Thank you for all your downloads, your listens, your heart, your nature, whatever it is. I am very appreciative of everything that you bring, just as much in the reciprocity of our love, beloved. And I will be speaking with you, and I'll be back with you very, very soon.